tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6367596429065516772.post5371361616997857492..comments2023-10-28T06:12:54.164-07:00Comments on infantasia: Johttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08988685736635515808noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6367596429065516772.post-49921998105194590912015-05-25T09:22:01.488-07:002015-05-25T09:22:01.488-07:00Well I suppose it's impossible to say what the...Well I suppose it's impossible to say what the right thing is, but I do think making a mistake in showing too much love and concern is less bad than in showing too little love and concern, so even if you're getting it wrong, it's the better kind of wrong - if you see what I mean.Mwahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00954216492730746581noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6367596429065516772.post-89155637082704993352015-05-24T15:49:40.024-07:002015-05-24T15:49:40.024-07:00Mary, she won't agree to that. She's in fe...Mary, she won't agree to that. She's in fear based denial and is terrified of confronting anything. Doesn't like talking to anyone, only venting angrily at me. Johttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08988685736635515808noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6367596429065516772.post-75847781658244204112015-05-24T15:48:42.535-07:002015-05-24T15:48:42.535-07:00Oh, I hope it's the same, Lisa! Thanks for sha...Oh, I hope it's the same, Lisa! Thanks for sharing your story, and I'm so glad you're still here to have birthdays with her. <br /><br />I just looked at your blog and saw your struggles with post-cancer treatment care, but I won't keep reading now as it won't do my blood pressure any good to see what the attitudes of the medical profession are. Johttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08988685736635515808noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6367596429065516772.post-34606834338097712882015-05-24T15:28:32.508-07:002015-05-24T15:28:32.508-07:00I just read through from the first of the year to ...I just read through from the first of the year to find out why your daughter isn't eating. I'm so sorry to have neglected you for so long. My daughter, Mollie, turned 12 the year that I was being treated for breast cancer. She didn't feel like celebrating either. Life just seemed too sad for her. I told her that it was okay, but the rest of us would just like some cake to make us feel better. She lightened up and let us celebrate. She's turning 23 this year and now will admit that she was just throwing a tantrum to see if anyone else cared. She really did want that cake too. The circumstances are different with your daughter, but I'm willing to bet that underneath, she really does want to know if anyone celebrates her existence. Lisa https://www.blogger.com/profile/09324961653370110887noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6367596429065516772.post-50332495141030387902015-05-24T14:27:37.192-07:002015-05-24T14:27:37.192-07:00I don't know either. I wish I did. Is she in c...I don't know either. I wish I did. Is she in counseling or therapy of any kind? Ms. Moonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09776404747858099919noreply@blogger.com