But! It is also a good friend's birthday today, and I can say Happy Birthday to her with a light heart. It's a bit crap, because I was always busy with my mother's birthday before she died, and then for some years, the two days were at odds with each other I suppose. But no more of that.
Hopefully we can have a night out next week to celebrate, and pray for more rugby players to enhance the evening again :)
2 comments:
I think it stays her birthday. And can be remembered if you wish. Nicer, like you said.
I agree with Mwa- it will always be her birthday. Always.
And you can, of course, celebrate the day she was born.
Happy birthday to your friend and let yourself be a little sad if you need to, and happy too. Both can coexist in one heart on one day.
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