oh honey! how i wish i knew and how i wish i could give ou a hug now, and make you a cup of tea. i think it's very hard to live in this situation (not together/not separate) for long. everyone ends up resentful of something or another, and it's hard to have love where there is resentment. i don't know how to fix it though, as i know financial stress is horrendous, i'm there too. maybe we should all move to India? Brasil? even Spain? i don't know....
Jo Im tearing up after watching the birth video and wish you had a bit of that joy too..not the baby but the love ..and wishing it for myself too..ahh..nothing is perfect all the time..hug
So sorry Jo. I don't know how you do it, really, it must suck. Big time. I haven't been around the blogs lately, but I am slowly catching up. I saw there were cakes for me to drool over. I wish all your problems were solved with a simple cupcake overdose :( Hope things improve for you. x Rhi
Do you know the expression, "shit or get off the pot"? It's crude but it says what must be said. I SO wish you weren't at this place. But I do know that if there is still a chance at love, there is still a chance.
Unfortunately there's not enough freedom of choice, Mary. If I had a better option I'd go for it, but I don't right now - and I still don't think it would make anyone less miserable if I did, for the forseeable future.
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oh honey! how i wish i knew and how i wish i could give ou a hug now, and make you a cup of tea.
i think it's very hard to live in this situation (not together/not separate) for long. everyone ends up resentful of something or another, and it's hard to have love where there is resentment. i don't know how to fix it though, as i know financial stress is horrendous, i'm there too.
maybe we should all move to India? Brasil? even Spain?
i don't know....
Jo Im tearing up after watching the birth video and wish you had a bit of that joy too..not the baby but the love ..and wishing it for myself too..ahh..nothing is perfect all the time..hug
Thanks, Ladies. A huggy ladies' commune somewhere sunny sounds good to me right now. No spiders, though!
So sorry Jo. I don't know how you do it, really, it must suck. Big time.
I haven't been around the blogs lately, but I am slowly catching up. I saw there were cakes for me to drool over. I wish all your problems were solved with a simple cupcake overdose :(
Hope things improve for you.
x Rhi
Do you know the expression, "shit or get off the pot"?
It's crude but it says what must be said.
I SO wish you weren't at this place. But I do know that if there is still a chance at love, there is still a chance.
Unfortunately there's not enough freedom of choice, Mary. If I had a better option I'd go for it, but I don't right now - and I still don't think it would make anyone less miserable if I did, for the forseeable future.
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