My husband had a work night out last night, presumably to thank everyone for working like slaves for fuck all remuneration over the last month or so.
He said he'd come home on the 1 o clock bus as I've got to get working today and am in a state of advanced exhaustion already.
I woke at 4 am with the baby, to a text saying he was on the bus, sent at 1.50, saying he'd get up in the morning and I could have a lie in... yeah, right. He got in shortly after.
The baby was up on and off quite a lot from 6 but had gone back to sleep, as had I, when my husband's phone alarm went off in the hall at 7.20 - stern English lady's voice saying 'IT'S TIME TO WAKE UP, IT'S TIME TO WAKE UP' plus buzzing. He grunted a bit, I got up and turned it off, baby awake.
I just don't get it, I really don't. Is it just stupidity, is it callousness, or is it just not giving a fuck?