Watching Men In Black with Bodhi - hear the 'it's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all' line.

Tommy Lee Jones says 'try it...'

Bodhi says 'That's not true at all.' I asked him why, and he said if you've loved and lost then you have pain. I suggested that you don't have the happy memories if you haven't, and he said, no, you can be happy and make happy memories without a wife or a girlfriend...
...or a nephew.

A nephew?? It is better to have lost a nephew than never had had one at all?

No no, he said. I meant, eh, a fiancé.